Our first lesson is something simple, yet so deceptively powerful. As I was leaving for my first year of college, I was quite nervous. My older sister gave me only one piece of advice. She told me to smile and stand up straight. It is quite possibly the best advice I’ve ever received.
Our body language is so powerful. People actually learn much more from someone’s body language than from their speech. Presenting yourself in a friendly and open way makes a positive first impression. Even if you don’t feel like smiling - force yourself to. It will pay off in the long run.
Children are very sensitive to the moods of adults and often mimic their behavior. Children are more likely to be open if they sense they are in a trusting environment. Creating that feeling begins with body language on the first day of camp. Set aside your nerves, put on your best smile, and make the children feel welcome.
There is one important caveat to this lesson. Standing up straight is a great way to show confidence and a warm attitude. However, with young children, it is often best to get down on their level when speaking with them. Try kneeling when you have a one on one conversation with a young child. Similarly, teenagers may find you more approachable if you lean against a wall or sit casually on a desk or table.
Paying close attention to your body language will pay dividends wherever life takes you. The first step to landing a great job, closing a sale, or making a new friend is to stand up straight and flash a warm smile.
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